Strategic Advance Care Planning offers YOU a clear, comprehensive, consistent, and convincing way to express your specific end-of-life goals so your future physician will feel compelled to honor them.

Good Initial Plan

Goal I.Complete an online Living Will that is clear and comprehensive.

Better Diligent Plan

Goal II. Make sure your Living Will is consistent and convincing.

Best Strategic Plan

Goal III. Make the treatment requests in your Living Will compelling.

  • Use My Way Cards, a decision aid, to express your judgment for 50 conditions. For each condition, answer...
  • Would any condition cause you severe enough suffering to want others not to prolong your dying and suffering?
  • If so, memorialize your advance treatment decision for Natural Dying instead of the default, Treat & Feed.
  • Receive your Natural Dying Living Will. Its 50 conditions cover what people dread most about prolonged dying in Advanced Dementia and other terminal illnesses.
  • Receive a Proxy Directive valid in your state, to legally designate your proxies/agents so they can advocate the decisions treatment YOU made (or make decisions on your behalf).
  • Receive unique links to the online program and completed forms by email.

  • Everything in the “Good Initial Plan” PLUS:
  • A clinician reviews your decisions, and...
  • Then discusses your decisions by phone.
  • Use a form to clarify your refusal of spoon-feeding.
  • Use a form to insist on relief from any type of unbearable suffering.
  • Use a form to refuse thickened food and fluid in advance.
  • Receive an additional “physician-friendly” version of your Living Will that...
  • Warns physicians of possible legal consequences—
    if their orders do not honor your known wishes.
  • Receive a printed guide, “How to be convincing in your video interview.”
  • Everything is sent by US Postal Service, ready for your and witnesses’ signatures.

  • Everything in the “Better Diligent Plan” PLUS:
  • Instructions on creating your working Decision Committee using strong bilateral legal contracts.
  • Use the Natural Dying Agreement’s legal/medical/logistical strategies to overcome 14 common challenges and potential sabotage.
  • Use the Natural Dying Affidavit to summarize your wishes in a legal document that can be admitted as evidence in a court of law.
  • Complete 3 Physician Orders for Life–Sustaining Treatment (POLST) forms with orders pre–printed for your physician to sign.
  • Consider 3 scripts to record on video, your brief instructions to emergency responders.
Natural Dying Living Will My Way Cards sorting Doctor writing orders

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Goal I. Complete a Living Will to clearly memorialize your judgment of 50 specific end–of–life conditions.

Together, these 50 conditions comprehensively include what people dread most about prolonged dying in Advanced Dementia and other terminal illnesses.

The key question: If you reached any condition that would cause severe enough suffering—do you want others not to prolong your dying and suffering?

The online decision aid My Way Cards works on your computer, tablet, and cellphone.
First, it informs you about each clinical condition.
Then it asks: “Would it cause severe enough suffering for you to want to be allowed to die?”
If “Yes,” you can choose Natural Dying—a way to die that is effective and peaceful; and that strives for others’ acceptance.

We send you a state–specific Proxy Directive so you can legally designate one person and alternates to speak for you—if you lose your ability to make medical decisions. We also send a guide on how to select and to empower your proxies/agents.

From your responses to My Way Cards, we generate and email you, your “Initial” Natural Dying Living Will. If you want to use it as your current Living Will, we print it and mail it to you by USPS, ready for signatures so that it can be legally valid.

We recommend using this Living Will as your initial draft and continuing your advance care planning efforts by reviewing your responses with diligent deliberation and discussion.

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Goal II. To make sure that your Living Will decisions are consistent and convincing.

Includes the “GOOD PLAN” plus...

First we review your responses to the My Way Cards. Then a clinician discusses them with you on a phone call of about 10 minutes. We ask: Are your decisions consistent with “severe enough suffering”?

Using the responses you may have revised, we generate your “Final” Natural Dying Living Will and send you a second, “physician–friendly” version that is strategic. It warns future physicians about 3 dire legal consequences—if they write orders that do not honor your known end–of–life wishes.

We send you 3 forms to add to your Living Will. They clarify your refusal of force–feeding; let you refuse thickened food and fluid in advance; and let you consent to treatment to totally relieve unbearable end–of–life pain and suffering—even if medications must put you to sleep.

We print your Living Will on brightly colored, heavy stock paper and mail it by USPS, ready for signatures so it can be legally valid.

To make your wishes convincing——we recommend you respond to an interview that you record on video, where you explain the reasons WHY you made these advance treatment decisions. If you do not select one of our trained clinicians to interview you, we mail you a short “How To” guide so your responses for your oral Living Will can strive to be convincing. (Our clinicians can record on video, their opinion: Did you have enough mental capacity to make these advance treatment decisions?)

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Goal III. To make your decisions compelling so future physicians and others will honor them.

Includes the “BETTER PLAN” plus...

You add strategies designed to overcome common challenges and sources of sabotage—so you can avoid conflict, or at least promptly and privately resolve conflicts—without going to court.

For more information about why even Living Wills that are clear, consistent, and convincing may be only necessary but not sufficient to be compelling so you can attain your end–of–life goals, click here.

One strategy further empowers your proxies/agents by asking each to sign a binding bilateral contract and to form your Decision Committee. Another strategy insists on using your high standards of evidence presented by opposing experts—if others claim that you changed your mind, no longer want Natural Dying, and revoked your Natural Dying Living Will—even though you have reached a condition that you had judged would cause severe enough suffering.

One especially challenging conflict is: Your “future demented self” indicates the desire for others to help spoon–feeding but you (as expressed in your Living Will) had decided on Natural Dying for your current condition. This “Best Plan” lets you invoke a strategy to resolve this potential conflict now!

Includes 3 “physician–friendly,” comprehensive Physician Orders for Life-Sustaining Treatment (MOLST, POST, etc.) forms that have pre-printed physician orders. The first can ask for cardiopulmonary resuscitation(CPR). The second can refuse only CPR (“Do Not Attempt Resuscitation or DNR.”) The third can request “DNR plus Natural Dying.” We can provide suggested scripts so you can record 3, shorter than one–minute videos to rapidly inform emergency first responders and physicians what treatment you do, or do not want.

To get your unique link to the online program and forms by email, order the “Good Plan” for $45 by clicking here.

Optional Read: “Six Steps to Strategic Advance Care Planning”

Consider the “Better Diligent Plan”

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Your efforts to be consistent and convincing may be necessary but not sufficient.

Consider the need for strategies to overcome 14 common challenges: click here.

Click here for a 10-minute slide show that reveals the opposition and its dire consequences.

Or consider “Best Strategic Plan”

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Click here to learn more about possible opponents and why to consider uploading to a registry.

Recommended: Upload all your forms and videos to a national registry such as where physicians and others can quickly retrieve them.


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Want to learn more before you select one of our plans? Click here

Concerned about a loved one who reached advanced dementia lacking an adequate and effective living will? Click to learn about Now Care Planning.

Now Care Planning is a program that offers you and others who knew the patient well, a way to see if you reached a “Consensus of Substituted Judgments” regarding what treatment your currently demented loved one would certainly want NOW.

The goal of Now Care Planning is to motivate your loved one's current physician to write orders to prevent a prolonged dying with increased suffering.

Your thoroughness on the legal matters, humor, and seriousness in facing this subject is astoundingly precious for me. My step-father’s ending was a nightmare over which we are still battling in court two years after his passing. His horrible ending with feeding tubes that he never wanted was due largely to the ignorance of his power of attorney. Your emphasis on completing a clear and specific Living Will is so right on…

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